Just yesterday while I was checking my emails I got asked "Why should I trust you?" And then a few minutes later I got a message from a person so hungry for a change that they were willing to put their house on the line to join the Home Seller Assist program created by John Alexander and also known as We Provide The Cash. Then, not a minute later, I got a message from someone who was at a time on my team,but decided to give up a little too soon, only to tell me about the great new business they want me to look at that launches next month. Yet here I am, in the same business, doing the same things, getting the same results.
If that doesn't sum up the home business industry then I don't know what does. At first glance these happenings appear totally unrelated, but there is a secret hidden behind them that if understood . . .
The ONE pink elephant in the room of the home business industry that no one ever talks about is that no one trusts anyone. For the most part, most would be home business entrepreneurs have "tried" so many businesses that they're in a total state of confusion. They feel slighted, they feel used, yet at the same time they feel desperate to succeed. Stop and think about it for a second.
That's a lot going on in a person's head. A ton of conflict, a lack of focus, lots of fear, and mental paralysis. It's not that much different than a sweet little puppy would act if you kept being nice to him, fed him, and then immediately scolded him for no good reason. After a period of time the poor guy doesn't know what to think of you. (That's kinda how your prospects look at you) What happens to network marketers over and over again (at least in terms of their perception)?
Someone says "Hey buddy, we got the best bizon the planet. Join us and we'll take care of you." The would be entrepreneur says to himself: "That guy seems nice, he's got a great product, he seems to have it all figured out,and you sure can make a lot in the business.I think I'll give it shot." The entrepreneur jumps in, is told to call leads then immediately feels the constant cold sting of rejection (like our puppy friend getting scolded)
Then our entreprenuer friend is told to go to all the company gatherings where everyone's so happy, excited, and nice. Back home again, our friend hits the phones for more rejection while his pocket's bleed of cash with no praise and no profits. Eventually he gives up. What happens next?
Another guy in another opportunity of the same nice character presents him with another great opportunity. Our entrepreneur jumps in,a few months later the same exact fate befalls him.
Eventually our would be entrepreneur, get's hardened, disillusioned and trusts no one. For the most, that's what we go through,until something changes. (What?) Keep reading . . .
Remember I told you about the three different messages I got yesterday? Can you spot the stages each person is in? I can. I can't fault the guy that doesn't trust me for not trusting me. He's probably been burned so many times all he knows is fear and anger spawned from past experiences, but still the question remains . . . Why would he be reading my emails and responding that way? He had to proactively opt in, become a subscriber, read a few issues, and then start to complain. (Hmmm . . .)
Why did the person who was once on my team tell me about her new great opportunity? Why was the third person dying so bad to be apart of my team?
Understand this . . . No matter how many times a person's been burned, no matter how many times a person comes to you with a new opportunity for you to look at, no matter how many people are willing to mortgage their house to join in business with you . . .
On thing remains true. The desire for more. The fire that was originally ignited never goes out. Once a wealth seeker always a wealth seeker. What changes a wealth seeker to a wealth getter?
Instead of looking outwards for the answer.You start to look inside and ask questions. Then simple focus and discipline to see through the answers you find inside. But to be pragmatic about it. You do the opposite of what isn't working now. If you've been in more than a few businesses, then maybe committing to one biz for the next five years may be your answer.
If you've always followed the advice of your sponsor as doctrine, then maybe NOT doing that anymore is the answer. If you've been buying and calling leads and it's not working, then just maybe NOT calling leads and instead giving the Home Seller Assist program and John Alexander is the answer.
It was for me!
Larry Potter
847-872-4047
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